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Negotiation Sheet

Impact Session

Impact play can be an intense, powerful, and delightfully transgressive adventure. But to be truly enjoyable, it deserves to be thoughtfully prepared.

This negotiation sheet is here for that: laying the groundwork for a sensual and respectful moment where each partner can express their desires, limits, and needs. By exploring together what excites you, what you refuse, and what you're curious to discover, you pave the way for deeper connection... and better-shared pleasures.

Legend

I want / I love
I agree
I do not want

Involved Duo


August 21, 2025

BEFORE THE SESSION

My Situation


Other communication method

The tricolor system is a simple code used in BDSM for communication: 🟢 green means “everything is fine,” 🟠 yellow signals a need to slow down or adjust, and 🔴 red means stop.

Non-verbal communication relies on simple gestures: a raised hand 🤚 means “stop,” a thumbs up 👌🏽👍🏽 means “all good.” These signals are essential when speech is limited.

DURING THE SESSION


Expectations & Needs

Pre-scene discussion
Music
Restraints
Silence

Tools

Whip
Flogger
Paddle
Cane
Hand

Type of Impact

Soft
Thuddy
Stingy

Mark Duration

No marks
A few hours
A few days
Permanent

Impact Zones

Back
Abdomen
Buttocks
Chest
Legs
Arms
Feet
Genitals

AFTER THE SESSION

Aftercare

Cuddles
Alone time
Food & drinks
Talk
Silence / music
Check-in in a few days